Earrings.. I love them! Soo sexy! Believe it or not my ears are not pierced. I have always worn clip-ons or creative taping. I know it seems silly that someone who has their belly button pierced is embarrassed about getting her ears pierced… but I am. I think I am running out of time though.. my wife has always said she wished I would get them pierced.. but now she is insisting, even implying a deadline. She said she is buying me very nice earrings for Christmas.. I am feeling there is a warning there.. lol. Please tell me why its ok for a guy to have his ears pierced in real life. It's not too weird now days right?
So long as you're not actually wearing a full set in public, I think it's unlikely people will even notice. Best to cook up a story just in case, though, because it sounds like this is definitely happening.
ReplyDeleteHi Gary, good advice!!
DeleteI feel like I'm in a good position to comment on this one. My wife objected to me having my ears pierced until a few months ago, then she agreed and I had them pierced. I must say it was an interesting experience. First of all, would anybody notice? Of course they did. They didn't interpret it as just being edgy either, first of all because the style is getting one ear pierced, not two and secondly because I'm a bit old for edgy styles and am relatively conservative in my other style choices. The great thing was that, although they noticed, they accepted the earrings and me wearing them. No, they assumed I was getting in touch with my feminine side. This was a good lesson for me. If people, especially your wife, like, love, and care about you, they'll still will care as you expand your and their comfort zones. Think of it as a trial run for when your boobs start to bud and grow. Too far? You have to consider the end game as you work your way down that slippery slope. As someone once said, you are who you pretend to be, so be careful who you pretend to be.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for writing about your experiences Scyndi, it was so appropriate and so helpful. So well written too!!
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